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 22:48 | 4/Jul/2008 | 2 Comment(s)
netrik kan

நெற்றிக்கண்
இது ஒழிய ஞானக் கண்கள் ஆ
மயில் ரேகைய சுட்டி விளக்கா
இல்லை என் மொழியை வளர்க்கும் சுடற!!!!


tanglish version
NETRIK KAN
idu oliya nyana kangala
mayil regaiya chuti vilaka
illai en mozhiliyai valarkum chudara

english version
THIRD EYE
is the twilight or the eye of wisdom
a pattern on the peacocks feather or the prosperous lamp
is it then the flame that fires the literature in me.guys i overdid it i guess.

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 17:50 | 14/Nov/2007 | 5 Comment(s)
Where management meets religion and mythology


















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Where management meets religion and mythology
2 Nov, 2007, 1930 hrs IST,Devdutt Pattanaik, TNN










Invoking the Goddess








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According to the Puranas, when Brahma creates the world, the Goddess appears as Saraswati, embodiment of knowledge, serene and aloof, dressed in white, holding a lute and a book, riding a heron. When Vishnu sustains the world, the Goddess appears as Lakshmi, stunning and alluring, dressed in red, bedecked in jewels, holding a pot that pours out gold and grain, riding an elephant that rises from a lotus lake.

When Shiva destroys the world by shutting his eyes to it, the Goddess becomes Shakti – alternating as the naked and bloodthirsty Kali, who danced on his still body, and as the demure and maternal Gauri, who made him open his eyes with her affection.

Saraswati, Lakshmi and Shakti are the three forms of the Goddess. They embody knowledge, wealth and power. Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva are the three forms of God who create, sustain and destroy.

Now observe carefully. The Goddesses are associated with nouns: knowledge, wealth and power. The Gods are associated with verbs: creating, sustaining, destroying . Knowledge/wealth/power can be created/sustained /destroyed. Knowledge/wealth/power provides the capability to create /sustain/destroy. Action is with the Gods — the result of the action is the Goddess who in turn provokes more action.

God is the subject; Goddess the object. Before we jump to outraged gender-based conclusions (“ the scriptures are patriarchal and that is why they portray God, hence men, as active and Goddess, hence women, as passive” ), note that Gods and Goddesses are embodiments of nongender based concepts that seek to enlighten, enrich and empower. A leader, whether it is a man or a woman, is God — the organisation is the Goddess.

The reason why the world/organisation is visualised in female form is because just as a woman creates life inside her body, a world/organisation creates knowledge/wealth/power inside itself. Man creates life outside his body; therefore man is the best representation for the one who creates, sustains, destroys the life-giving organisation.

God and Goddess, leader and organisation , cannot exist without the other. Without either there is neither. He or she can only create, sustain or destroy . What is created, sustained or destroyed is knowledge , wealth and power, which in turn offers more opportunities to create, sustain and destroy.

Typically, in the corporate world we assume that a leader exists to create wealth — he is Brahma creating Lakshmi. But a Brahma creating Lakshmi will fail, in the long run, because he is too busy creating to bother with sustenance.

We often find fly-by-night operators in the business world who find validation in making that quick buck. These are the Brahmas of the world, desperate to get rich quick, without thinking about sustainability.

A good leader is a Brahma who creates Saraswati — knowledge. Knowledge manifests as innovation and ideas and inspiration . That is why Saraswati holds not just books and memory beads but also the lute with which she makes music. Knowledge appearing as insight provokes a systemic transformation in people. A good leader is constantly seeking wisdom, within himself and others.

Once Chandragupta was very hungry. The moment rice was served, he put his hand right in the centre of the pile. His fingers got singed and he withdrew instantly. “Never from the centre, child,” said his guru, Chanakya. “Always from the sides where it is cooler.” Chandragupta realised his master was not telling him about rice alone. He was warning him against his planned attack on Pataliputra , the capital of the Nanda Empire. It was a well guarded fortress. Better to go from the sides, conquer the surrounding , less formidable territories and gradually move in on the centre of power.

This insight made Chandragupta a great general. He was able to overthrow the Nandas and become ruler of the Magadhan Empire. It was knowledge that made him king of a prosperous king. His hunger for wisdom made knowledge appear before him. By becoming Brahma, he discovered Saraswati and so was able to become Vishnu with Lakshmi manifesting as his crown and kingdom.

It is said that Vishnu keeps Saraswati on his tongue. This makes Lakshmi jealous. She rushes towards him and plants herself in his heart. Vishnu knows that the fickle Lakshmi will leave as soon as Saraswati leaves his tongue. Thus to sustain Lakshmi, he needs Saraswati. Good leaders know that to sustain their business they constantly need to inspire, motivate people and at the same time innovate new products and services that will delight the customer. Lakshmi will come into the company where Saraswati thrives.

Knowledge management systems, databases, research documents, patents are all tangible forms of Saraswati. A good leader focuses on them, rather than on account books. He ensures the Saraswati that is generated within the organisation stays within the organisation. In other words, by being Brahma who creates Saraswati he remains Vishnu who sustains Lakshmi.

With knowledge and wealth, comes power and arrogance . The belief that one is invincible and capable of doing anything. When this happens, the organisation becomes naked and bloodthirsty – provoking the leader to act rashly and indiscriminately, indifferent to all rules of conduct, making him believe that he is above the law. In other words, the organisation becomes Kali. A good leader recognises this rapidly and becomes Shiva.

He has to destroy the rising ego and arrogance that blinds good judgement. He shuts his eyes and lies still, allowing the Goddess to dance on him but refusing to respond to her. Only then the Goddess becomes Gauri — dressed in green, she becomes maternal and affectionate , and with gentleness she requests Shiva to open his eyes and become Shankar, the benevolent, boon-bestowing , wise ascetic. Thus a good leader has to be fully sensitive to the corrupting influence of power — and try hard not to succumb to it.

Ultimately to establish a knowledge, wealth and power generating organisation, a leader has to be a teacher, a king and an ascetic all rolled into one. When the three Gods thrive inside, the three Goddess will thrive outside.

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 18:04 | 7/Sep/2007 | 2 Comment(s)
HANDS PLS

holy god damn it!

Celibacy is not a virtue its a lack of Oppurtunity

now te issue in ?n is man cant a guy / gurl stay as per nature's wish by making Oppurtunity / by defying it.

man tis has become te topic of great importance as guys u dont have a gf then u r expected 2 wear a earing on the right ear alone. well if u plan 2 spend some time with the girls n u cant stay talking about idly coochie cooohie coo n all abt te moonlight n how her friend did tis n then tis guy did tat well man better learn 2 stay with a girl irrespective of wheter she talks techie stuff/other bad girls friends of hers/ how she goes on adjusting her t-shirt/never be bother even if she has body language tat moves 2 tell u she keepin herself upright /however she glances/wat on hack anythin man jus stay with a girl.

seriously man abt the tshirt adjustin - man she will be wearing a pucca round neck tee n on top of it she will be checkin it out for every 15mins. Trust me even when u'r eyes maintain proper eye contact as u see it its the world of movies the glam girls r te heroine's ( n as if i dont like it )

as u dont have a girl then machi it real bad time man. r all te guys jus makin it up with stories as in te case of american beauty movie.

Grow up man, its time 2 do some thin atleast yap around / cook up stories as Sex / Love making is all te same yet its te 1st time tat will stay in u'r head.

remember u'r 1st smokey, 1st drink, will u ever forget te 1st leak man. Be it a love break, a ditch, a hitch r a bitch guys/gurls as te famous sayin goes

dil me math lae yar hath mae laelo yar ( dont take it in u'r heart take it wit u'r hands pal ).

well tat was some virtual digital brain explosion guys actualy (technology) Porn  has supported us by stayin good, well wen te pipes r cleaned with freq updates, then u get 2 stay away from bad company ( again lack of Oppurtunity ) n lets celebrate celibacy.

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 14:01 | 17/Aug/2007 | 7 Comment(s)
tamil/tanglish/english - anbe sivam

tamil/tanglish/english - anbe sivam / loving is godliness

sorry guys jus felt like jotting down some thin which came up on mind, effect of watchin 2 souls being pushed onto the Elec crematorium.

pls no religious / ethnic strings attached.

எல்லாம் உடையான் சிவனே போற்றி !
நல் என்ணத்தை வளர்த்தேன் உன்னை மறந்தேன்

சக்தி பெற்றேன் பார்வதி அம்மையை மறந்தேன்
ஞானம் பெற்றேன் விநாயகனை மறந்தேன் 
விவேகம் பெற்றேன் விளையாடும் ஆறுமுகந்தனை மறந்தேன்
பல பலன்கள் பெற்றேன் என் பொன் பொருள் மறந்தேன்
எல்லாம் மறந்து உணர்ந்து எல்லாம் பெறவேண்டும் என்றேன்
நீ என்னை மறக்காமல் மயாணத்திருக்கு அழைத்து சென்றாய்
ஐம் பெரும் சிவனே போற்றி !
If you are unable to read the message on top, read the same message in Thamil -
ellam udaian sivane potri !
nal ennathai valarthen unnai maranthen
sakthi petren paarvathi ammaiai maranthen
nyanam petren vinayaganai maranthen
 vivaegam petren vilaiyadum arumuganthanai maranthen
pala palankal petren en pon porul maranthen
ellam maranthu unarnthu ellam peravendum enren
ni ennai marakamal mayanathirukku alaithu senrai
aim perum sivane  potri !

decoded in english

oh who beholds all - hail sivan

i cultivated good thought & i forgot u

i achieved strength & i forgot goddess parvathy

( avatar of lord sivan - half of his body as siva & remaining half as parvathi / sakthi )

i received knowledge & i forgot lord ganesha 

i became smart i forgot sixfaced lord muruga

i earned a lot of goodies & i forgot numbers, assets, lively things

later did i realise that i should have lived my life & i remembered u

yet u did'nt forgot me & took me with u to the grave

( grave/mayana sivan - avatar of sivan )

oh lord of panchabootham ( earth, water, fire, sky & air )

we hail u'r name oh lord siva.

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 08:30 | 13/Jul/2007 | 4 Comment(s)
GETTING WASTED

aint i suppose to be the real me atleast in blogging man.
well its weekend time & a real party ahead for me as my friends are coming down for their annual breaks.
when all alone i really sit down & regret y did start consuming liquor n continue 2 do so, wont it be better if i tell my parents before they regret - NO tat would be like commiting crime with intention.
well then i am nearing 30's n yet i dont have the courage to tell my parents.
man i am old enough i dont need no papa mama story but yet havin been away from home for the past 19yrs n suddenly if i settle in with them then.

first thing i'll slowly feed the news to my mom fine tats it, then papa will get 2 know about it fine .

now y al tis stupid blogging 4 the blogger do they really have 2 undergo my thought process.

lets refresh err LETS GET WASTED -

do i call it drink recipe is tat right man!

1. devils Lip - vodka with green chillies ( cut green chillies length wise & remove the seeds before putting into u'r drink ) n fill little bit of squashed ice.
 for christ sake dont bite the chillies.

2. bisky tikka - tis jus 2 enjoy u'r great tikka, dip hot tikka into u'r glass of any nice blended whiskey & smack it up with tikka sauce dip n enjoy u'r tikka, then jus drain the biskey, u will get the flavour of hot solid liquor draining in u'r gullet 

3. NONGU MOCK - tis the best one, preferred mock tail. mix tender coconut, nongu add sugar to taste n chill it real nicely dont freeze it. have it on a hot summer day in a laid back family home setting
( nongu - tamil word 4, somebody help me man - guys - its a fruit from the palm tree family - black hard shell with 3 white jelly which u got 2 scoop it with u'r thumb 2 enjoy it )

4. Tamarind grind - super duper mock tail, fallen tamarind hand picked, shell & seeds removed, pulp squashed with bare hands n mix with water n literally dissolve it as u , well ask u'r gal man. jus dissolve it n add sugar chill n cool down. great 4 u'r stomach n during summer


well i'm real drunk so i have to blabber here
well 2 mocks n 2 cocks n  blogys please add u'r tails to it  HICCUPS????

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 16:04 | 12/Jul/2007 | 12 Comment(s)
ARRANGED MARRIAGE

A walk to remember


 The woods were lovely dark and deep. Walking slowly beside her, in the

    damp mud road, was her husband whom she barely knew. He was very

    relaxed, happily watching a group of kids playing at a distance.

    Her "mehandi" was still dark and smelling fresh, reminding of the

       excitements and tension 2 days back. "It cant work this way

   mom...please stop this", she kept telling her mother till the last

   moment,who wouldnt listen but carry on with beautifying her.She had

   been crying all night and her make-up had to be patched up twice or

                    thrice to hide her awkwardly swollen face.

  It was too late now.She had to get married "NOW" to the guy...The guy

  whom she had seen once and talked thrice.The guy about whom she knew

    nothing at all but for his name and work.Everything happened in a

   hurry and everthing was over before she could breathe again... here

    was she with this guy, all alone in this hill station... how can

   anybody send their daughter such a long distance with a stranger???

 "Hey look at that....!!!" he shouted in excitement... she shrugged and

                          looked where his finger pointed...

  Bright colored balloons dotted the sky. Children were jumping in joy

   and he seemed to be completely absorbed into it...colors are always

 exciting...but not now.She was not with her friends, not with her team

   mates, not even with her parents. This was not a 3 day tour or team

  building trip.This was her life and she has been forced to start off

                                       with this person.

    Loneliness and discomfort with this stranger was sickening...She

   looked at him in wonder... does he even realize that he has married

  me?Does he understand that he has to love me,protect me,care for me,a

                           new girl,a stranger,all his life?



   The marriage morning started like a daylight nightmare for her.The

   first time in life she felt she should have fallen in love and then

   married somebody. some man who she would have felt more comfortable

   with, someone whom she could call by name and introduce to friends,

  someone whom she could trust. But marriage morning was obviously not

                               the time to think all these.

   Her parents would never have said "no" if she had declared that she

     was in love.But she was not emotionally attached to anybody she

  met,especially guys.She was very friendly,playing,teasing, but never

    had second thought for any man around her.That brought the entire

   responsibility of looking for a groom on her parents' shoulders.Her

  parents had had a very bad time with this entire process.They started

  their groom search with unending "&" operation. The concatenation of

 "Horoscope matching" & "Decent family" & "Good looking" & "Good pay" &

  "same cast" & so on... that always gave 0 output.Now after all that 8

  months hunt,they were not ready to hear her "ifs" and "buts" for this

                                           'good guy'.

   She had explained to her father.She does not feel anything for this

          person.He is nothing more to me than any other software

   professional.Like list of names she sees in the chat rooms. Distant

  and usual...Her father asked her to talk to him and even meet him and

     discuss their likes and dislikes.That meeting started like the

      induction programme self introduction and ended like a 3 hour

  seminar.She was waiting to get away from that place."So did you talk

    with him?"."yes"."was he polite and decent"."yes"."Oh he got that

    special flavoured tri-color icecream...!!!".OK.All her family and

 relatives discussed...She was given the chance to "understand her life

   partner" and that they have understood each other "well" and she is

                               ready for the marriage now.

  All arrangements geared up and it was 24 days after her first meeting

  that she was getting married to her man... perfect match as everybody

   else described.Marriage hall was full with excited people, kids got

   the chance to play,ladies got the chance to wear the silk saree.The

    smell of rose and jasmine filled the hall.Different poses for the

   photographer and atrificial smiles for the videos.The moment he had

   tied the sacred thread was unexplainable vaccum in the head.It was

     over.She was his wife.Accepted by the society and law.Her proud

   parents were relaxed.This was their duty they had been planning to

  fulfill since she was born.All this crowd will fade away,leaving her

                               to explore her new world...

  He pulled her hand gently to sit on the stone bench.The bench was wet

    and the chillness was indeed enjoyable."So what are you thinking

  about?"... that was an unexpected ball.should she reply?should she be

   silent?She remembered the two hour presentation she had taken last

   month.Bold and confident, she kept answering all the queries with a

   broad smile.Now she remained silent."Do you know honey... I was not

  for this marriage too..." Oh my God... what did i hear??? did HE tell

  that or did i think aloud? what does he mean?didnt he like me?was he

     forced into this? He must have noticed the quizzical look on my

 face...with a gentle smile he continued..."I wanted to look for a girl

   myself,buy her everything,care for her,argue with her,laugh and cry

    with her,then get married to her... Anything otherwise would be a

 drama. Traditional drama and i was not for it anytime. But my love for

  my work and also my stress would not give me time and mind to search

      that girl...When your parents talked to me 2 weeks before our

   marriage, about your fear of getting married,to a stranger, i could

   completely understand your mind. I could see myself in you and that

  was the moment i decided i will marry you.There was no time to prove

   myself to you,make you trust me,everything happened in a hurry.But

   there was the entire life before me, to please you,to love you, to

   make you trust me.This is no less than what i had dreamt,the girl i

  was waiting for,is you.Now tell me... will you love me???" Tears came

    down her cheek.Her parents had done more than their duty.They had

    found her the perfect guy. Thank you Mom!!! Thank you Dad!!! His

         question remained unanswered yet both knew the answer....

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 17:38 | 28/Jun/2007 | 17 Comment(s)
Why do a few men never get girl-friends: :-)


FORWARDED MAIL - COOL 1 but with regrets !!!!!

The often repeated topic. It seems to be a mystery until you really start thinking. One of my personal favorites. Why some men can never fall in love or never get girl friends. Many of us just keep complaining, without thinking on what the inherent problem is.
Thankfully, I did it as a case study and found out some important issues which might concur with a majority of ppl who are rocking the same boat as mine.

1) You always sit in the last bench with the other class comrades who feel that its possible to get marks sitting in last row. In case of workplace, no girls are there in your project and you have like minded ppl like you as colleagues and wherein your entertainment oscillates between the bars and cinema theaters.

2) You obviously cant groove and dance, and dance around in a group in a disc by just shaking your head or grooving your hip. Desi music directors are
your favorites. You cant wait for a bangra number to crop up. Unfortunately, you are too adept at dancing dappankuthu or desi dance, not the americanised western hip hop dance.

3) You perceive discotheque to be a place where you will have a chance to unleash your dancing potential (dappankuthu) and occupy the center stage with 10 other fellow rogues, immediately throwing out the babes from the vicinity of the dance floor. This automatically repels the women from you (they consider you as out of civilization. But, unfortunately we think that we are the only ppl who can really dance)

4) Your Intelliegence quotient mostly can take in just Jackie Chan, Arnold and Stallone flicks. It can take in just action films whose contents can be absorbed. You just can't take any English Romance films. Desi romance rocks. We invariably are the DDLJ and Hum Aapke Hai Kaun types. Shahrukh, Rajni, Kamal, Mohanlal, Mammotty, Chiranjeevi rock. Tom Cruise is a dud!!! and invariably ***...(obv..its becoz of jealousy)

5) You cant eat Spanish, Chinese foods and your fav restaurant invariably happens to be Saravana Bhavan, Anandha Bhavan, Shanthi-Sagar types. Of coz we cant forget Karpagam Mess, Mami's kadai and Murugan Idly. We frankly are clueless as to what are Bella Ciao, Wang's kitchen and things like that, unless we happen to go an a treat organised by the other guyz.

6) You dont see a reason why you have to go to Barristas or Qwiky's when the local corner "Nair Kadai Chaaya" tastes like nectar and satisfies you more than a Barristas. Lime tea is the best tea to have been invented by an human and you are thankful to nair for providing it to you.

7) Most of the jokes you know are adult jokes which you can discuss only with your other fellow comrades and which again takes the oppurtunity from telling a joke to the girl and impressing her. But when you seriously tell very good jokes, the blondes can't comprehend. You have to tell some absolutely "Kadi jokes" (terrible bores) to make them laugh, which you try however, will never come close to.

8) You obviously dont know how to make use of Yahoo Messenger, and you use it to scold your online friends with the best choice of invectives, spread rumours abt other guyz, and ask them to book the latest movie tickets. You unfortunately dont know how to flirt using Yahoo Messenger and are frequently at loss of topics when you want to chat with some girl. Whereas you are deluged with strange topics to discuss with your friend with whom you had lost touch for the past decade or so.

9) While chatting in messenger, you seriously cant start a topic with a member of the oppoisite sex. I have seen guyz chatting with girls purely with emoticons for more than a hour. You can never do that. You will have to crack real dumb jokes to start the conversation or falsely extol them. And bet, you can't do the following:

Boy : What did you have for breakfast??
Girl : I had idli ....
Boy: Is it??? Same pinch, no back pinch, I too had idli. (he slyly pinches her) and laughs.
Girl : Ouchhh (artificially). It hurts.
Boy: Ohh.. I am sorry and (tries to apologise).............then says "I had sambhar for idli."
Girl: (excitedly)..Sambharrrrrrrr............ i had chutney....and giggles...

I swear, I cant tolerate any longer than this................ And this is not a figment of imagination, by any means. I have seen this...Though I agree there may be exceptions..

10) You cant sing a Bryan Adams, Sting, George Michael's song. When someone talks about Linking Park, you cannot even imagine who they are and the closest
link you can associate with them is Cubbon Park.

11) You seriously are clueless as to what rock music is.

12) All through college life, you belong to this boyz gang and even in your gang, nobody has a girlfriend. So there is absolutely an absence of the inspirational factor.

With ALL these attributes, it is difficult for guyz like us to fall in love or find a girl. But it is not a sin after all. I guess we are not made for it. We are one among the few in the vanishing tribe. Let us accept that and be proud of that...


We have THE uniqueness that we remain single till we get married and having that trait is really a virtue and who knows, we might be the elite clique in the future.

So all those of you who feel sad that they dont have Gf's, just chill!!! We are not made for it and I swear that for our characteristics, a GF would not have added any value addition and we are better off staying single till 28 or 30.  :-).

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 12:02 | 23/Jun/2007 | 1 Comment(s)
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